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Well my friends, WELCOME TO CANADA. You see over here, not only are most things different from home; even the terms used are different to some extent. For instance while the common foolscap paper back at home has 2 ring holes, over here it’s 3. And you wouldn’t be able to get a 2 ring binder because every binder or folder has 3 rings!!
Apart from that, the bus system here is also different. It actually has a time schedule!! I actually got a shock when I first heard about this, cuz how on earth can a bus have a schedule when it is subjected to traffic? But amazingly they do!!And this helps so much when you need to make plans to visit any place, and the best part is the buses are always punctual and on-time (despite regular traffic and stuff). It’s amazing! Now this is something that the Malaysian transport ministry should seriously look into. Having fixed schedules! The problem with back at home is that bus drivers love to take “frequent breaks” thus delaying everyone else on the bus.
The food system here too is different. Breakfast usually is a grand meal with bacon (strips of pork meat) and eggs, and along with bagels. Yes bagels are a huge breakfast item over here. For those of you who do not know what a bagel is, imagine a doughnut that is split by the side. It’s not as soft and sugary as a doughnut though. Bagels are usually used as a substitute for bread, but it is common. Lunch however is quick and fast, and lunch starts at 11.30 till about 1.00 pm. Supper (aka dinner) is at 6 however. This is because of the light lunch the person has had, so by the evening, it’s time for another large meal. Supper can also even be at 5.30 at times. I remember my Canadian friends at residence used to have supper at around 5.30ish!
Oh and for tomato sauce, it’s actually known as ketchup over here. Even in the labels although some might have a tomato picture, it’s still ketchup! Say tomato sauce in a restaurant and the waiter will give you a “hah?” look! Even in the best possible canadian accent, he still won't get you. And chili sauce won't work either. Learn to use this phrase "hot sauce" yeap that's the equivalent for your chili sauce here!
One of my classic stories whenever I talk to people my first experiences over here was the “for here or to go?” story. You see back at home, people usually say having here or takeaway, and all my life I have been used to that phrase. Little did I know that it meant the same thing with “for here or to go” When the cashier at a fast food restaurant at Niagara Falls asked me “is it for here or to go sir?” my reflex response was “Go where?” Then later I was told by my uncle that to go means “takeaway”.
Now open a separate window and go do an image search on capsicum. Now do another search on green peppers. Notice anything different? It’s the same thing, but Canadians don’t actually call them capsicum, rather green pepper is the “correct way” to identify the vegetable. Try asking someone here whether they’ve tried a capsicum and be prepared to get the “hah?” look.
Americans call it soda, Malaysians call it soft drink, and the Canadians call it pop. This is another interesting difference between home and here. While we are used to the notion of soft drink implying coke, Pepsi or a sprite, over here those drinks are known as pops. So, If you're in a store and you want to buy a pepsi, chances are you'll have to go to the "pop aisle" or the "pop area" to get it. It was hilarious when I heard it for the first time here. Who the heck says pop for a drink? But one think I have to admit though, the variety of pop available over here is waay more than back home....there are so many different brands,sizes, packs, etc...
Finally we look at the money system. While Malaysians are used to seeing 20 cent and 50 cent coins, believe it or not, Canada doesn’t have them. Instead the “nickel (5 cents), dime (10 cents) and quarter (25 cents)” system is used here. And to make a phone call, a dime wont be enough…the minimum amount is a quarter! And while we don’t have this, Canadians have a 2 dollar-value coin, also known as a toonie; ( refer to pic) and you don’t have to be a genius to know what a 1-dollar coin is called! – That’s right a loonie!
Well I guess it’s these little things and quirks that makes a country unique and different from the others… and that is why it actually takes time for people to learn and adapt to a new country. Do drop me a comment if you wanna asked me something from home that is of “equivalent” to over here. Hehe I’ll be happy to answer them as best as I can, and also to those living overseas, do you find anything quirky of that is different from back at home? Do share your stories and thoughts.
Well there you go, you can proudly say you've learnt something new today. Now go impress your friends with you new found knowledge...
oh and by the way...a sub is a type of a sandwich. Subs come in 2 sizes, 6 inch and a foot long. The one on the picture below is a 6 inch one I belive...
Your dating personality profile: Liberal - Politics matters to you, and you aren't afraid to share your left-leaning views. You would never be caught voting for a conservative candidate. Big-Hearted - You are a kind and caring person. Your warmth is inviting, and your heart is a wellspring of love. Outgoing - You can liven up any party. You've got a way with people and have little difficulty charming your dates. | Your date match profile: Practical - You are drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn you off. You appreciate the simpler side of living. Shy - You are put off by people who are open books. You are drawn to someone who is a bit more mysterious. You want to draw her out of her shell and get to know what she is all about. Intellectual - You seek out intelligence. Idle chit-chat is not what you are after. You prefer your date who can stimulate your mind. |
Your Top Ten Traits 1. Liberal 2. Big-Hearted 3. Outgoing 4. Religious 5. Practical 6. Sensual 7. Adventurous 8. Wealthy/Ambitious 9. Intellectual 10. Athletic | Your Top Ten Match Traits 1. Practical 2. Shy 3. Intellectual 4. Religious 5. Big-Hearted 6. Conservative 7. Traditional 8. Athletic 9. Adventurous 10. Sensual |
Am I amused, astonished or shock by this? Well to be honest with you, I'm neither of them. As we move on in this age, people are getting wierder by the day and doing more irrational things just to solve or stop a problem...
But seriously this is probably the first time I'm actually hearing something like this. I mean normally if a partner becomes very persuasive, the other partner will just give in... and since this couple was already engaged...you'd expect them to be more understanding of each other's needs. But for her to go to the extent of drugging him to "slow him down" makes you wonder what the heck is going on in the bedroom...
My question however is this - Is too much sex bad? What do you think?
Ever wondered why girls can be so darn confusing at times? I'm not saying that they're a menace or a big pain, (I'm not a male chauvinist; in fact I have the utmost respect for people of the opposite sex, especially the intellectual ones!). But seriously sometimes, they just piss you off for senseless reasons. It's not so much the things they say to you, but rather I find their actions to be confusing and often times hurting...and the worst part is, they don't realize that they're hurting you.
As a gentleman, the proper behaviour you are supposed to display is understanding and patience. But seriously, there is only so much patience and tolerance a person can take. Now those who know me pretty well know I'm an impatient fellow by nature, and my past relationships with people have gone downhill due to my impatient nature. I always want to bury the hatchet quickly with people and as a result and at times, it backfires. Anyway as they say, you learn as you grow older and I have learnt to be more understanding and patient, but seriously, when a person crosses the line, I think its okay to say "enough is enough!"
But you know what's really screwed up when you start thinking this way? You start doubting yourself! *personal thought: or is it just because I'm a Libran, so i'm indecisive in nature?
What I mean here is that after thinking over it for sometime, you start to feel that you may have over-reacted to the situation and this kinda prompts you to think that you should be more understanding and evaluate the situation more rationally. But that's the core essence with human emotions, it isn’t always rational. If we were to be rational with our feelings, there would be no passion and we wouldn't feel hurt and neglegeted.
I have been very patient and understanding with this person. But yet, as the days are going by, I kinda get the feeling that I almost mean nothing to her ; it's almost like she's kinda gotten bored of me. The saddest part is we used to be really good friends, and it's not like we've had a major dispute or anything...yet her attitude has just suddenly changed...and she hasn't even bothered to be clear and face me about it.
The thing is I really don't mind if people want to stay away from me and hang out less with me, even if the explanation is irrational I can take it, but when you start playing the cold-treatment game, it just shows me how much you value friendship. It shows me how much I mean to you. One of the most painful things I can't take from a person is ignorance. When a person becomes ignorant toward me, my first natural instinct would be to break ties with the person. I feel that he or she isn't worth being friends with. I just can't stand people who I treat so well and with great care and respect become a cold stone toward me. It's just like a stab to the heart...and it hurts like hell.
And when you play that game, probably you will not realize how much pain you're putting on the other person who considers you to be his or hers closest friends. Rather than thinking that you're a selfish and self-centered person, usually the person will initially think that it's probably something that he or she has done to make you piss with him/her.
But then, when the treatment goes on for sometime, he/she will start to question the friendship bond that the 2 of you have. And if it goes on, and you don't say a word and continue being ignorant, don't be surprised if your friend suddenly explodes and wants to end the friendship...